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From my experience of life thus far, there are some prominent things about my life which I’m quite proud of actually, and which have also triggered other people.
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I have now conducted a site wide “search and replace”, and I hope it is true that all links are now working again.
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Response to: Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1..
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I must apologise to anyone who has been encountering broken links on this website over the last few months.
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A better title for this post would be “Why it is dangerous to lead with love and romance in a relationship even if like me that is what you are looking for”.
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The point of this post is [to discuss the fact] that writing this blog sometimes deceives me into thinking I know a lot about relationships…
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The minor scale that it is written in and the lyrics just speak to me of nostalgia, or memory, of love for a place, of the natural rhythms of life.
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This is a little note just in case Mr Eventual Huggie-Wuggie is reading this:
Yeah, I definitely want this!
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The things represented by Valentine’s Day, the values it represents or speaks to, the feelings it acknowledges, encourages or speaks to, do not intersect with my own relationship hopes or yearnings *at all*.
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I don’t think that these videos can truly give me an accurate representation of reality, but they can tell me perhaps what people think about love, or they can give me a romanticised idea of love.
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I have previously stated on this blog that I watch lots of YouTube videos. Just now, my brain craves constant stimulation or cheap dopamine so I often just keep scrolling from vid to vid.
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This entire blog deals with just how easy it is to marry a poor choice of husband, and this post specifically.
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New Thoughts Sub blog now closed
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Please note, if you visit this blog a lot, you might need to clear your browser cache specifically for this domain name “https://huggie-wuggie.com”
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In the world of the rich… many places or establishments charge a huge premium for what, ultimately, is often *exactly the same* as is available at far more modest prices…often exactly the same brands, from the same bottles.
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[After a certain experience where someone was thrown into my space for a while], I’m honestly not exaggerating when I tell you that I am grateful to still be alive to write this post…
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This is a critique of everything flawed I’ve noticed or experienced about Calvinistic faith, demonstrating that it is not a sincere expression of Biblical faith. Shrug. Sorry not sorry.
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If people are pressurising you that you need to get married at all costs, please know that this is not from the Bible. Please do not merely take my own word for it, but check out the Bible for yourself.
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I came across a “deconstruction” video on YouTube a few days ago, posted by a pastor explaining why many people were leaving …
I came across this date night idea for alphabet date nights, and I think it is a great idea! 🙂 https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/relationship-feeling-stale-give-the-viral-alphabet-date-nights-a-try_uk_64c21faee4b03ad2b896797b
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Once again I would like to thank the mysterious pray-er, if indeed there is anyone out there praying for me. As I …
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Well a few hours ago I wrote a post on this blog, concluding by saying that I wanted to sleep, then read …
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You know, I was thinking recently about how I used to be physically attracted to a certain guy. I went on and …
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This is something I have been thinking of for ages! Like years and years and years – since before I wrote *that* …
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
Yep, it’s been seven good years of writing this blog! And here I am as single as ever! I’m trying to cast …
Wishing all readers of this blog a Happy Valentine’s Day, and week! I hope that you’ve all had an amazing day. For …
And so here we are at the point when I am finally asserting that when it comes to friendships, you have to …
So it is the beginning of yet another New Year, and you are still single! Well you’re in great company! (Points at …
1. The “Friendship” blog should actually have two distinct categories: “Friends” for dealing with people who are actually friends, and “People” for …
New years are a great time to take stock, and look back in gratitude for the year that has just ended, and …
These thoughts are literally just occurring to me now, when I’m supposed to be doing other things! Thoughts that occurred to me: …
I just spontaneously wanted to write this post to express some of the irks I feel about friendships. Before I jump into …
Well I finally started my social justice blog, and now for the turn of the friendship blog, which is also something I’ve …
So here we are at the beginning of yet another new year… I can’t help wondering what this new year might bring …
Well I said that I would challenge myself to make a start on this social justice blog before the end of this …
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year in 2018! I hope that you will …
I would really like to wish all the readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” an amazing Christmas season, or what remains of it. …
Let me start off by reassuring any readers that no, my faith has not died. And by the grace of God it …
1 John 4v18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear. Photo by Mbll on Pixabay
1 John 4v8 God is love. Photo by Geralt on Pixabay
1 John 4v7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God, and everyone who loves is born of God …
1 Corinthians 13:13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. Photo by Bess-Hamiti on …
1 Corinthians 13:8 Love never fails. Photo by Soorelis on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Photo by Andreas Lischka on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v6 Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth Photo by Jill Wellington on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13:5 Love is not provoked, thinks no evil Photo image by Komposita on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v5 Love does not behave rudely, does not seek its own Image by Gino Crescoli on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4c Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up. Photo by Annca on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love does not envy. Photo by Petra D. on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love is patient, love is kind. Photo by James Chan on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be …
1 Corinthians 13v2 And though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. …
1 Corinthians 13v1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding …
Proverbs 31:30 Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. Photo by Lillaby on Pixabay
Proverbs 12:4 An excellent wife is the crown of her husband Photo by Pixel2013 on Pixabay
Proverbs 4v7 “Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.” Photo by Komposita on Pixabay
Ecclesiastes 4:12 “…And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Photo by Conger Design on Pixabay
Ecclesiastes 4v9 Two are better than one, for they have a good reward for their labour Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house… Photo by 12019 on Pixabay
Proverbs 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs, where there is love, than a fatted calf with hatred Photo by Nietjuh on …
Proverbs 31:30 But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Image by Monica Ly on Pixabay
Proverbs 18v22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the LORD.Photo by Sylvia Tan on Pixabay
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together unless they are agreed? Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
Well just over two years after initially “disabling” RSS, I have now added it back to the site. (Actually, it never really …
So today I find myself in the position of wanting to make substantial changes to an existing post. But how to do …
Quick answer: whatever you have prepared, so prepare well. This blog is not really the place for this particular post. However I …
Oh man, I just have to share with you verbatim what my Dad just said! Talking about the tragedy of the Texas …
Or, Why do I have such acute emotional needs?! So I was sitting there just minutes ago, just casually and happily minding …
In this post I am going to try to talk about something that I have greatly struggled with for a very, very, …
or, Why can’t you and I both be powerful?! Actually, before I launch into the post proper I have to confess that …
Well it turns out that thi s day of the year, October 16th, has historically been a very prolific date in the …
So here I am after writing this blog for 6 and a half years, still trying to create a systematic structure for …
This is one of those spontaneous posts that just occurs to me and I feel like expressing. Whatever else I might “get” …
I found this video via Twitter, and I thought it was great, so I’d like to share it with you all! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyQiT96Xu_g&feature=youtu.be&a[/youtube]
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I started thinking to myself “What could I do before my marriage to work towards keeping my marriage sexually passionate?
I’ve recently been getting into looking after my natural afro hair. But I’m trying to find a quick, easy, inexpensive way of …
Related in a way to the previous question, “How do you know he is not going to be unfaithful?”… This really is …
Someone once asked me how I knew that my husband was not going to be unfaithful. And I just stared! It is …
I know what you might be thinking: “Tosin, what is a post about Capitalism doing on your Huggie-Wuggie blog?! Have you possibly …
I initially published this post back in 2012, then I unpublished it, for reasons which I have now completely forgotten… ————————————————————– A …
Well I have just written this post on my Bible blog, but I was feeling so riled and worked up about this …
I’ve been thinking quite a lot about this since I published my earlier “let’s talk about money” posts: it’s all very well …
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://huggie-wuggie.com/blog/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
I was recently reading/giggling through a certain post here, and thinking, for the hundredth time, just how cringey this post is! And …
I’ve recently thought of a very significant further hole in the idea of spouses having individual accounts as well as communal family …
In addition to the out and out bad character which I looked at in the other part to this post, these are some …
If you were asked to spontaneously run a race or obstacle course without any warning at all, then your achievement in the …
Thinking about money, on one hand I can be extremely romantic! I will say about my husband: “Money doesn’t matter!” That is, …
I’ve just spent a few hours reading through another website; isn’t it funny how so many of us feel qualified to give …
This post is *so* long overdue! This blog turned six years old back in March! So yes, it has been six years! 6 …
Well after I had read the post referred to in my own previous post here on this blog, it got me thinking …
It has been so long since I last posted that I was honestly scared to look at the date of my last …
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
So here is an idea that I’ve been wanting to write about for a few months now. This idea is a little …
I’ve written so many posts here about how to pray for a marriage. I guess it would make sense for me to …
Well you know this weekend I could so have written two substantial Huggie-Wuggie posts – at least! But you know what I …
Well it has been a while since my last Huggie-Wuggie post, and I felt that I needed to explain to you all …
Well I don’t think that it is any secret that the Biblical theory of automatic submission from a wife to her husband …
Here’s the thing: I believe that to a certain extent marriage has to be conditional. Unconditional love is one of absolutely the …
Well it’s been a little while since I wrote an article here on Huggie-Wuggie. This weekend I’ve been extremely keen to write …
I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
TEMPORARY POST: To September 30 2016 This post expands the post “Essential Characteristics for my husband“ ———————————————————– A few further thoughts I …
I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have to write a post about my own determination …
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
This is an idea that has only really crystallised in my mind today. On this blog I have spoken so many times …
Edit: 2nd July 2016 Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this a bit more, I think that this post …
Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …
Well yesterday I published quite an excited post about how amazing everything is, and my beautiful dreams of a beautiful marriage, and …
So the fifth anniversary of this blog occurred all the way back in March! That’s five years of thinking about marriage, and …
Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …
I recently came across a Facebook post about marriage. You know, one of those facebook posts giving all sorts of helpful encouraging …
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
This is a post script to my last post, available here. Well after writing my last post a few weeks ago, a …
Firstly, I really want to apologise if it seems that I have been blowing my own trumpet so much on this blog. …
Recently I found myself down one of those internet article rabbit holes, where I will almost compulsively start reading one article after another, …
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
A little waffly preambleOh wow! I have not published any posts to this blog for months and months! In terms of actual …
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post. There …
After many years and thousands of feeds I have decided to disable the RSS feeds function on this site. The chief reason …
A few weeks ago I came across the following article, about a famous author who left his wife for another woman. Daily …
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
I’m sure most people will have come across the idea that women are supposedly irrational or overly emotional. Personally speaking, I have …
I’d like to apologise to anyone who finds my posts confusing! There are two big reasons why this might be (that currently …
Despite being on this blog, this is a post that is purely about friendships, with people of either gender! So over the …
Apologies in advance: this is a particularly waffly post! It is a subject that I struggle to understand, so I have literally …
OK, now for the second part of this post: this is the matching part to the first post, how to ask someone …
There is now a matching post to this, “How to turn someone down” Well here I am, supposed to be working away. …
Ha ha ha, only joking, let’s not!Instead, please check out this incredible video on the subject from this year’s Rhetoric, by a …
Well today I’ve got to admit that I was in two minds about whether to write a post here or not. On …
As a postscript to my previous post, there were a few extra things that occurred to me later. I must admit that …
So it’s that thing where I have not written a post for quite a while on my blog, and for some reason …
Well I have been thinking as always about relationships. I can’t quite remember how the following thought process happened in my mind, …
Pretending to be asleep, I watched my husband as he prepared for the day ahead of him. Still seething from last night’s argument, …
Disclaimer/Confession: I actually thought of this post a few days ago, while I was typing out my last post. However, as I …
The ideas I hope to express in this post first occurred to me months and months ago. However, they were some of the …
This post is a development of ideas I have expressed before. However I first thought of it in this light last night …
Well there was a very important postscript that occurred to me right after I wrote the previous post, Deserving You. It was …
The slogan on this graphic reads:“Only God can give you the love you’re looking for, and only God can give you the …
This is not really a full post, but rather a quick anecdote. So I have finally been trying to get serious about …
I randomly came across this post online, and on reading it immediately identified with the points made there. 15 Things Ambitious Girls …
This is the second attempt at writing this post. My mind is like jelly right now, perhaps because I have been eating …
Yeah, it has been a bit of a while since I last wrote a post on either of my blogs. On one …
You know, after shutting off for the day, I’ve had to turn my computer back on just to make this post! So …
Well you know how I said that I might be winding down activity on this blog? And I explained the reason why?! …
This is a message for…surprise surprise – a certain someone!Can I tell you something?! I hope that this is not completely over …
You know how I recently said that I might be winding up activity on this blog? Well I simply could not leave …
Well I’ve got some news for anyone who might follow this blog…I’m thinking of stopping or reducing blog posts on this blog, …
This is one of those (many, many) blog posts that occurred to me in that dreamy hinterland between sleep and wakefulness, where …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********As with last week’s post, this post will be most relevant within marriage itself. However, it will be most useful to …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********I think that the ideas contained within this post are going to be most useful within marriage itself. However, it is …
This beautiful post was shared by my sister on Facebook. I agree that it is a lovely idea for an engaged couple …
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