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The Princess and the Prayer!

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is really just about trying to find yet another creative way to thank the person who might have …

Thank you for your prayers – Again!

I’ve just published this post on my other blog. However, for some reason, I feel compelled to post it here too! ———————————————————— …

Thank you for your prayers! Smoke whorls

Thank you for your prayers!

OK, before I write the characteristic for this week, I would like to take some time to thank the person who has …

Alphabetical list of relationship aspects

Abuse Adultery Ambition Anger Attraction Better Married or Single? Boundaries Building an excellent foundation for your marriage Character Commitment Communication Dating Different …

Dealing with toxic people

Well I was just reading yet another post about how to deal with “toxic people”.  And here are a few thoughts on …

Strong dark-skinned woman

Humbilify! – Updated

EDIT ADDED 5TH OCTOBER 2018 Well in the two days it has been since I wrote this post, I have actually been …

Becoming Mrs Outstanding

I really don’t have much time to put together a post today, so this is going to have to be very short …

A field of poppies

And so…

And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.”  But guess what?!  It is …

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A little bit of humility…

I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …

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My biggest fear…just now!

Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …

The problem with “just leave”

Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …

PS – Talking about Adultery!

I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post.  There …

Horses kissing

Fulfilling his needs!

Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual!  …

Aromatic Sunset

Body, Soul and Spirit!

The ideas I hope to express in this post first occurred to me months and months ago.  However, they were some of the …

Only God can give you the love you're looking for...

Deserving you

The slogan on this graphic reads:“Only God can give you the love you’re looking for, and only God can give you the …

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Can I tell you something?!

This is a message for…surprise surprise –  a certain someone!Can I tell you something?! I hope that this is not completely over …

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Talking about Vision!

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********I think that the ideas contained within this post are going to be most useful within marriage itself. However, it is …

Bricks

Strands and Building Blocks

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to people who are considering whether to get married, for instance people who …

Church V Marriage part 2

You don’t genuinely care, about me, or God.  You are just interested in adding some extra multicultural kudos to your prayerless gathering, …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie: Dropping Fat Hints!

Fat Hints!

I think I’m actually going to dedicate a category here on this blog to big fat hints, starting with this post! I’ve …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie: Already Desperately in Love: Roses

Already desperately in love!

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** If what I describe in this post is truly how many of us “fall in love”, then I think that …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie: Sexual Purity: More Thoughts: Bible Text

Sexual Purity: More Thoughts

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie: Talking about Pornography and Sexual Fantasies: Leaves

Talking about pornography and sexual fantasies

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie: Married to Myself? Swan

Married to Myself?

**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …

True concern – Postscript

In this post, I would like to offer further clarification about the “true concern” post. As I was originally writing that post …

Why we need each other!

Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …

Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie! My Personal Values

My Personal Values

Here I’ve tried to list down all my own personal values regarding dating and relationships. This page is likely to change a …

What is friendship?

I must admit that it is somewhat embarrassing for me to have to write this post. After all, this concerns something that …

All about two years Part 2

This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …

All about two years Part 1

In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”.  For people who do …

Avoiding Mr Perfect - image of statue

Avoiding Mr Perfect

This is a blog post which might seem to say the opposite of what I usually say.  However, by the grace of …

Two threats to marital love

Over the course of the week, I have been thinking away about marriage, as always. For anyone who follows this blog, you …

Excellent wife material? Part 1

I’m going to apologise in advance as this post is largely about myself, so it might have limited relevance to other people!  …

Positive Feed-Forward - intertwined wooden rings

Positive Feed-Forward

Happy Easter Sunday to everyone, happy Resurrection Sunday! Well, as this is Easter Sunday, mindful of the sacrifice that Christ made for …

Feelings of inadequacy - unopened rose

Feelings of inadequacy

I don’t know why it is, but my mind will be buzzing with interesting and exciting ideas for blog posts all week, …

Dating Night Stars

Dating

In my posts, I refer a lot to “dating”. I often speak quite negatively about it. Here, I thought I would clarify …

Everybody changes! Luminous butterfly

Everybody changes!

Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …

My dream Valentine's Day - Ornamental Pigeons

My dream Valentine’s Day!

Well anyone who has been following this blog at all will know that I have not posted here for a while. The …

Overview of Marriage Part 3 - Starburst

Overview of Marriage Part 3

This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here So anyway, finally, a …

Criterion No 1: Attraction

Criterion No 1…! ;)

I have just made a very drastic reworking to this criterion. Before reading on to Criterion No 1,  please check out this …

Please don't do this! Bright smile

Please don’t do this! ;)

This is a letter not to my future husband, but rather to my holy, excellent single Christian brothers. Dear Brother, if you …

Finding a good wife: Hands held in a heart shape with sunlight shining behind

Finding a good wife! Part 1

This article was originally written for my Facebook weekly Sunday Notes feature on Sunday 17 October 2010 ———————————————————————————— Proverbs 18.22 “He who …