I am so excited that I’ve finally launched this blog.  It is a blog about thoughts, insights and meditations on the subject of relationships, marriage and choosing the (or a ) right life partner.  As I am a woman, naturally it is written more from a female perspective.  Now, one big aspect about this is that I myself am VERY single, and yet I definitely want to get married.  Now I believe that this is quite a radical angle as most marriage or relationship resources, especially from a Christian perspective, are written by people who themselves have already been married for decades.  Mine is a new perspective as I am looking on into marriage, and trying to best digest the available information to choose a great guy, and to lay my marriage on the right foundation before even beginning a relationship.

And I’m inviting you along for the ride, to share my observations, experiences, and lessons learnt, which will hopefully culminate in a marriage that starts strong and grows stronger, from day to day.  Amen!  ;)

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Why you should read this blog:
Key Beliefs:
I believe that you can choose to have an excellent life, whether you get married, or remain single. However, if you are going to have an excellent marriage, that depends on there being an excellent person available for you to marry! Failing that, you might have to remain excellently single!

I believe in building a great foundation for your marriage:
I believe that an excellent marriage is not purely a matter of chance.  It is not a matter of getting lucky.  There are no guarantees of course, but I believe that when you start reading the blog, you will see how straightforward some of these ideas are, grounded in sheer common sense.  But, there is a catch.  I believe that the best time to build this foundation and to work towards this excellent marriage is before the marriage itself.

That is because at any point before marriage, you can still walk away from your chosen spouse.  Once you are married, however, it becomes too late, and you are locked in with the choice you have already made. So I urge you to take all the time and effort necessary before marriage to make sure you are marrying the right person.  After marriage, you will have the opportunity to build on your excellent choice.

If you knew you could choose to have a great marriage, would you not choose the very best marriage possible? Would you not work to build in aspects of love, romance, communication – or whatever else you might like?  I know that I would. So this is the kind of marriage I am holding out for. It does require a lot of hard work.  However, if you enter marriage unwisely, then you will probably be working even harder just to make your life tolerable, without any real hope of these beautiful dreams.

So join me on my journey, and let’s work towards planning for marriages that are made in Heaven!

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